You know the drill. You're standing in the fitting room, tugging at the elastic that's cutting into your hips. The waistband rolls. The leg openings dig in. So you do what you've always done—you reach for the next size up.

It fits... sort of. The digging stops, but now everything else is wrong. The fabric bunches. The coverage shifts. You're swimming in fabric that doesn't sit right, doesn't move with you, doesn't feel like you.

And yet, you buy them anyway. Because at least they don't hurt.

The Compromise We've All Made

Sizing up has become the default solution for so many women. Not because we don't know our size—we do. But because traditional underwear cuts simply weren't designed with real comfort in mind.

Those high-cut legs? They look great on the hanger, but they dig into the crease where your thigh meets your body. That "flattering" low-rise waistband? It rolls the moment you sit down. The delicate lace trim? It leaves marks that last for hours.

So we size up. We tell ourselves it's fine. We convince ourselves that comfort has to mean compromise.

But here's the truth: it doesn't.

Why Sizing Up Doesn't Actually Work

When you size up to avoid discomfort, you're not solving the problem—you're just trading one issue for another.

The waistband might not dig in anymore, but now it gaps at the back. The leg openings might not cut in, but the excess fabric bunches under your clothes. You've eliminated the pain, but you've lost the fit, the support, the confidence that comes from underwear that actually works with your body.

And let's be honest—you shouldn't have to choose between comfort and fit. You shouldn't have to go up a size just to get through your day without constant adjusting, tugging, and discomfort.

The Real Problem Isn't Your Body

Here's what the industry doesn't want to talk about: the problem isn't you. It's not your hips, your thighs, or your body shape.

The problem is that most underwear is designed with aesthetics first and comfort as an afterthought. Cuts are based on how they look, not how they feel. Elastic is chosen for durability, not softness. Seams are placed for manufacturing efficiency, not to avoid pressure points.

Women have been conditioned to believe that discomfort is just part of wearing underwear. That a little digging, a little rolling, a little adjusting throughout the day is normal.

It's not normal. And it's not acceptable.

What Actually Works

Real comfort doesn't come from sizing up—it comes from better design.

It comes from understanding where traditional cuts fail and engineering solutions that address those specific pain points. Wider waistbands that distribute pressure evenly. Leg openings that follow your natural curves instead of cutting across them. 

It comes from underwear that's designed in your actual size, for your actual body, with your actual comfort as the priority.

When you find underwear that's truly designed for comfort, you don't need to compromise. You don't need to size up. You just need to wear your size—and feel good doing it.

You Deserve Better

If you've been sizing up for years, this might sound too good to be true. But think about it: why should you have to choose?

Why should comfort mean sacrificing fit? Why should feeling good in your underwear require a workaround?

You deserve underwear that works. That fits. That feels invisible because it's so comfortable you forget you're wearing it.

Sizing up isn't a solution—it's a compromise you shouldn't have to make.

December 21, 2025 — Jody-anne Sellwood

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